• The Woman Before Me – 5

    5. THE NEED TO STAY At 9, I read the quote on a billboard, ‘Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result’. At that time, I thought of the wife, praying over and over again to the same deity believing He could change him. At 15, the deity…


  • The Woman Before Me- 2

    2. THE SUBSERVIENT WOMAN Trevoh Noah once said “The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He’s attracted to independent women.” I had known men like this but I was blind to the one who lived in that…