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Out And About
Dearest reader, wait… wrong blog. I fear I’ve been gone so long I’ve forgotten how to write my blog. But I’ve not been gone for nothing! Last year I took the internet’s advice and went out to touch grass, and I never went back inside, truly. I’m just starting to have my weekends to myself…
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The Damsels Are Defrosting
First of all, Happy New Year! Second of all, it’s been a long time! I thought about this title while I was out on my hot girl walk last month, and get this, this post was supposed to go out on the first week of March, but I’ve been doing everything but writing so here…
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July Recap
Taylor, Weddings, Barbie, Core values and Word of the day. HAPPY TAYLOR SWIFT MONTH TO ALL WHO CELEBRATE. I asked my boyfriend to park behind the mall so I could play August; cannot think of any other way to start the month. Speaking of August and Taylor, I tried twice last month to get presale…
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Dating Dave, Wonderland -A Monthly Recap
Welcome to June, or rather goodbye, you’re now leaving June. The start of summer, excessive spending, and unexplained disappearances from your bank account; the worst season in the year, but who agrees? My goal this spring was to go out and touch grass, and grass I have touched. Now I need to balance the scale…
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Ah, The Little Pleasures…
I was writing this and on cue, this cool breeze started blowing into my room, and I had to close my laptop and take a nap, talk about little pleasures. I can go on and on about all my little displeasures of life, but I’m going to take a page from Taylor and choose to…
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4 Things I’m Looking Forward To This Summer
Welcome back! A lot has changed since the last time I posted, which was, *checks note*, 12 days ago. Oh! But that is a topic for another post, tune back in! Summer’s right around the corner, and in a perfect world, it’d mean summer break, summer vacation, a season of rest and relaxation, (I’m going…
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My Top 5 for 2022
Ladies, Gentlemen and Others; Give it up for the last post of the year- My Top 5 from 2022. I did this in 2020 and I decided to do it again this year, and next, and next. The five categories are, movie/tv shows, top book, song, blog post and new discovery. MOVIE/TV SHOWS When I’m…
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5 Things I Lived By This Year
Look at us, at the penultimate post of the year; we did it. Who would have thought? I thought it’s only best I wrap up the year by reflecting on some of the things I started to live by; advice or quotes, or theories that acted as a guiding light leading to the end of…
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Taylor Swift’s Midnights: My Favourite Lyrics
My biggest teenage achievement was not, staying away from drugs, sex, or having good grades, it was discovering Taylor Swift, and I don’t know what would have become of me had I not stumbled upon Bad Blood and Blank Space and YBWM, and then into a rabbit hole of her discography but I know what…
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6 Adulting Things No One Prepares You For
And this is only just for phase 1 of adulting… Summer is over, and so it’s time to factory reset to regularly scheduled programming- I mean adulting. Here’s the first adulting lesson I learnt the hard way — That your unemployment phase is one of the best phases of your life, and ironically you might never get…
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Everybody Moved On, I Stayed There…
Have a seat, today I analyse my grief. On a Friday night, I’m sitting on my bed drinking lemon-saturated green tea, with Scenes From a Marriage tirelessly playing on my TV for the 100th time. I think I’m my most introspective on Friday nights that I stay home. There’s something tragically beautiful in knowing that…
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Dave, What Are We?
On Relationships 2: Getting comfortable with static situations. Everyone I’ve had a relationship conversation with in the last few months has probably heard me say, I’m giving the next person I’m in a situationship/talking stage-ship with, three months to make up their mind, and if we’re still dilly-dallying after three months, I’m removing myself. The…
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In My Graduate Era
For those that follow me on Twitter or Snapchat, you saw the videos, you saw the tweets, one year after graduating and I can now officially accept I AM NO LONGER A STUDENT. All it took was walking across that stage to end that chapter and dare I say, it was the perfect ending. LOOKING…
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Life Update
Okay, so this was not even what I was supposed to be posting today but it was 5:52 AM and I spent the entire day watching The Office and reading You Deserve Each Other and Fangirl and I need to release something today before I go to work but when I opened my laptop to…
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On Relationships
Breakups, moving on and new beginnings. Today I’m talking about something personal to me. Relationships and breakups and friendship breakups. I’ve not been broken up with yet. Every ‘romantic’ relationship I’ve had, I’ve ended on my own terms, but it doesn’t make it any less hard. (Ok, maybe a little). Sometimes I think about what…
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My Top 5 For 2020
2020 has been a mad year… and that’s putting it lightly. I was in this room on Clubhouse and they were asking each of us to rank the year out of 10. There were 2’s and 6’s and 7’s and it got to me and I say 8. Why? They ask, ‘Well, it’s not been…